Hello, lovely readers! My name is Aleksander, and I’m passionate about dancing, particularly in the enchanting realms of ballroom and ballet. My dance journey began at a young age when my biological mom enrolled me in ballroom dance classes. Back then, I was incredibly shy, often hiding in the background. But as I continued to dance, I discovered a profound love for it. With each step, I found my confidence blooming, transforming me from a timid young boy to a self-assured dancer.
Winning competitions became a significant milestone in my dance story. While words might fail to capture the essence of those moments, the feeling of triumph and the rush of adrenaline remain etched in my memory. Through these victories, I realized the power of dedication and hard work.
In my pursuit of dance, I encountered a stereotype that plagues many boy dancers: the misconception that dancing makes us “sissies” or implies something about our sexual orientation. This harmful belief inspired me to start “Boys Dance Too.” I am here to debunk these myths and show the world that boys can dance freely, passionately, and proudly. I want to emphasize that dance knows no gender boundaries and that it doesn’t define our masculinity. I am living proof that a boy can be a dancer and still be a regular, everyday guy—I even have a wonderful girlfriend who supports my passion wholeheartedly.
My dance preferences lean towards Latin dance, especially the tantalizing tango, and the elegance of ballroom dance. Ballroom has been a constant in my life, a love that has grown with me from childhood. More recently, I’ve ventured into the world of ballet and other dance forms, broadening my horizons and deepening my appreciation for the art of movement.
I draw inspiration from legendary dancers like Mikhail Baryshnikov and the wave of Russian artists who brought their talents westward. Their dedication and artistry inspire me to continue pushing boundaries and challenging stereotypes.
The journey of a boy dancer is not without its challenges. While I advocate for acceptance and inclusivity, I also believe it’s essential to acknowledge the differences between boy and girl dancers, including in our attire. I understand the complexities of this issue, especially in the face of some boy dancers wearing dresses. I believe that embracing our uniqueness while respecting our differences is crucial in fostering a supportive and inclusive dance community.
On a personal note, I am adopted and proud to be part of a large and loving family with four brothers and three sisters. These diverse experiences have shaped my perspective and fueled my determination to create a more accepting world for boy dancers like me.
Thank you for joining me on this incredible journey. Together, let’s dance against stereotypes, celebrate our individuality, and spread the joy of dance far and wide.
With passion and grace,
Aleksander